Rewrite the Rules: Redefine Success from the Inside Out

Often, we think of success as something we earn by doing more, fitting in, or pushing harder. But what if the key to meaningful success lies in doing the opposite—slowing down, tuning in, and potentially choosing a different path altogether?

What if success isn’t something you chase, but something you define?

This month on Notable Leaders Radio, our guests—Judy Winslow and Chad Lefevre—challenge conventional thinking about success, personal growth, and emotional alignment. Through very different journeys, they arrive at a shared truth: transformation begins when you stop living by default and start choosing with intention.

Judy Winslow: Creativity, Responsibility, and Owning Your Path

Judy’s story begins in what she calls the “School of Don'ts,” shaped by a complex relationship with her mother. Rather than letting that define her, Judy chose to see it as a launchpad—an invitation to decide for herself what she did want in life. Her journey is a powerful reminder that your past may shape you, but it doesn’t have to limit you.

She also offers a fresh take on creativity—not as a title or talent, but as a universal force available to anyone willing to explore it. For Judy, true success comes from expressing your authentic self and finding freedom within constraints, not despite them.

Chad Lefevre: Rewiring Your Brain and Finding Emotional Sobriety

Chad takes us inside the brain’s reward system, explaining how the "near win" effect—getting close to a goal but not quite there—triggers more dopamine than actual success. It’s a pattern that keeps many of us in loops of starting without finishing. By understanding this, Chad shows how we can shift from reaction to intention and regain control of our behaviors.

Equally powerful is his concept of emotional sobriety: the practice of being present with your emotions, learning from them, and responding rather than reacting. In a world that often rewards speed over depth, Chad’s call to emotional clarity is both timely and transformative.

Together, Judy and Chad remind us that your truth, your mindset, and your willingness to choose differently shape your future.

🎧 Listen in and get inspired:
Judy Winslow - Embrace your inner weirdo!
Chad Lefevre – Architect a life by design vs tolerating a life by default.

Which insight resonated most with you? Comment  and let me know—I’d love to hear your take.

P.S. If you want a partner on that journey of discovery and mastery, let’s talk.